WEATHER IN CUCUTA

Friday, November 21, 2008

Got Tagged by Wendi


Okay, so I got tagged by Wendi, so here's my response to being tagged -- a photo of Karen proudly displaying her big fish! I was so happy the picture I needed to post wasn't some ridiculous-looking photo that I might regret years down the road. (And Wendi, just gotta mention that I have some of those "no make-up" photos too, so I can certainly relate!)

Apparently the grandparents took the kids fishing at the pond at the property's edge almost every afternoon, and it seems my kids love fishing and they seem to have pretty good luck at it. Karen's picture says it all! From what I understand, she was so happy!

So now I get to tag 5 other people and have them post their TAGGED photo. Here are the rules:

Find the 6th folder in your pictures directory and post the 6th photo in it. So here are the instructions:

* Go to your sixth picture folder then pick your sixth picture.
* Pray that you remember the details.
* Post it on your blog.
* Tag 5 others, leave a comment to let them know they’ve been tagged.

So watch out my blog friends, it's my time to tag now! It's all in good fun!

Thursday, November 20, 2008

My, My, My How They've Changed in One Year's Time




Not only have each of the kids matured mindwise, but they've all grown up and put on some much-needed weight. Marissa, our bio daughter, has really gone through a huge transformation this year of growing into a shapely young lady's figure shedding the baby fat and entering into the puberty-laden years (with heavy emphasis on the emotional side emerging ever-so-fast and -furious!!!) No complaints, really, because I'd be lost without her help!! She tends to Luis so very much with an eagerness to change those dirty diapers and bathe him, so I'll go easy on her.

Here's just a few of their more recent pictures. It's hard to get 4 kids together and expect all to cooperate with taking their best shot, thus the need to post 3 different pictures.

We had a wonderful night of celebrating our one year together last night. We had cheeseburgers and tater tots (what the kids wanted), with cake and ice cream for dessert, and topped off the night by watching our "Gotcha Day" videos. The kids couldn't believe how much they'd matured, and were actually a little embarrased by their behavior as captured in the videos from the first few days. Karen especially got embarrased because she really has changed so very much! I teased with her and said I planned to show this video on her wedding day. She didn't much care for that and laughed so hard pleading with me not to embarrass her in that way. It really was a fun evening -- oh, how it soothes my soul to see how much progress they've made. Saying "I'm so blessed!" just doesn't even begin to express the wonders these children all bring... BUT I'll say it anyways, "I'm So Blessed!"

Several of my Colombian adoption/blogging friends have met or are meeting their children this week and I am praying for each of these families. Thanksgiving just naturally brings about an expression of thankfulness, and paired with the wonders of seeing God's amazing matchmaking abilities, I wish upon each of these families to be filled with many blessed moments as they welcome these children into their hearts, their homes, and their lives. Congratulations to all the newly-formed families!

Wednesday, November 19, 2008

ONE YEAR TOGETHER AS FAMILY!





Yes, today marks that special milestone of one whole year together as a family. Where has the year gone? It seems like only yesterday when we were in Cucuta awaiting our first meeting with our children. I remember, vividly, how we awoke that morning after tossing and turning most of the night, trying to occupy the morning and early afternoon's moments but feeling the overwhelming anticipation building to that moment we'd meet our kids since the meeting wasn't set until 2pm. The moments seemed to tick slowly by, and with every breath I took, I grew more light-headed and almost sick with the wait. The clocks in our minds ticked backwards for the hours leading up to the initial meeting of the kiddos. We ventured off to breakfast that morning with the full intentions of passing the time after breakfast with a leisure swim followed by fresh showers and a relaxing primp session...at least that's how we had it planned! My gut feeling said to take showers before the breakfast, but Rick was very hungry and insisted on breakfast first. This would have worked perfectly if we hadn't gotten greeted by our new translator friend, Alexandra, who had been sent to the hotel to gather us for a meeting ASAP. Seems the kids arrived at the ICBF office much earlier than anyone had expected. So much for our leisure primp session, although I did manage to squeeze in a quick shower for myself (Gen) and our daughter, Marissa. What a crazy few moments leading up to our meeting. I've never before had anxiety attacks but I'm sure those moments of heavy breathing and almost fainting spells accounted for a huge "anxiety attack". I remember how Rick would have to remind me to breathe, at times. My stomach ached much from the erratic breathing patterns I'd grown accustomed to as the day moved on. What an experience!

Then we took the taxi ride across town to meet the kids. What a wild time! That had to be the most incredible display of pure love, and to take part in that blessing was just undescribable. We met the two foster mothers and what a great surprise because their wonderful love they clearly had for our children was so obvious. We are so grateful for their guidance and love for our children! Although our happy day was their sad day, we felt so endeared to meet the wonderful women who had taken great care of our kiddos.

We were told that when Fabian awoke that morning. he rather loudly announced for everyone else to wake up because that was the day he'd meet his daddy (in spanish, but you get the idea). SO TOUCHING! I'm almost certain that's why the children arrived much earlier than originally expected. The foster mothers just couldn't hold the children back. Fabian was so intent on meeting his new family, mostly his Dad.

Tonight we will celebrate with cake and ice cream, as we honor one year together as a family! Just a week before Thanksgiving, we have so much to be thankful for. What wonderful blessings come from the children we have been entrusted to raise, and for that we thank our loving Father above! We look forward to many, many more happy years ahead. And just one more thought... we are so very thankful we are able to celebrate this milestone in a warm climate! We don't care for the cold weather too much anymore.

(Pictures above were taken while in Cucuta, Colombia, last year.)

Thursday, November 6, 2008

Too Big for His Britches


Yes, my boy Fabian sometimes acts "too big for his britches"... after all, he's just a normal little boy, but when picking out a costume this Halloween, well the literal translation took over and he really was too big for his britches. That's why the HULK costume fit him best (really, I'm not trying to throw in ALL those puns!)

See, he had always dreamed of being a POWER RANGER for Halloween. What I gather is that Colombian boys tend to view those Power Rangers as the coolest Super Heroes out there. And Fabian's fondness to Power Rangers ranks right up there pretty high, thus the desire to BE a Power Ranger for Halloween. Well, that dream ended for him after finding those cool Power Ranger costumes were a little too tight for him. As he'd try on suit after suit, convincing himself that this suit would fit better than the rest, well... none were even a close fit. These suits were so tight that at any moment he could easily belt out the chorus of "Thriller" and sound just like Michael Jackson. Three stores and five Power Ranger suits later it became clear to Fabian that there were no Power Ranger suits in his size. Luckily I found a HULK suit that would fit. He wasn't going with the HULK idea at all so I just brought the suit home with the idea that if we came across another costume he liked better, we'd take this one back. Thanks to the loving persuasion of my wonderful husband, he turned Fabian onto actually liking the HULK. The Hulk just fits Fabian's personality much more than the Power Rangers ever did because Fabian has always had this impulsive way of getting in your face and growling a big 'ole GGGRRRRRRR backed by a mean face! This is a behavior we have worked hard to curb and he's made great progress throughout the year, although sometimes the behavior still surfaces. It is my understanding that there was a teenage boy in the foster home Karen and Fabian were in and this was the teenager's way of showing dominance. There were no adult males in the foster home so this is easy to picture happening.

The kids are growing so much... Fabian especially. He's putting on more weight than his sister is. And Marissa is developing such a figure at such a fast rate, it's almost hard to imagine. Over the past year her body went through so much transformation. She went from this pudgy little girl to a slim, young lady almost overnight. She's matured mindwise and I really depend on her to help me so much. I'd be lost without her. As thanks for all her hard work, in addition to allowance she gets extra gifts or treats usually consisting of High School Musical items or trinkets. Over the weekend I took Marissa and Karen to the movies to see HSM 3, which they loved! They said it was their favorite out of the High School Musical series. It was an enjoyable afternoon... a huge contribution to a fun day! The boys stayed home and watched an action movie at home as they enjoyed their "guy time" together. I'm so thankful for those little moments we get to bond with our children!

Wednesday, November 5, 2008

Halloween came and went





Halloween at our house donned appearances from the Hulk (Fabian), then there was a pirate (Marissa), Snow White (Karen), and the most gentle little Lion (Luis). We had a nice Halloween with the kids loading up on a lot of candy. We didn't go door to door but just went downtown which seemed to be the happening-est function in town with the exception of a local church carnival that was offering a chance at a surprise giveaway of a brand new vehicle to some lucky family. What a way to bless someone. We didn't join in their festivities but we passed by on the way home and they seemed to have quite a turnout. The kids had fun as we stumbled upon a youth performance of "The Legend of Sleepy Hollow, Ichabod Crane". That was entertaining and it even starred our neighbor, one of Marissa's friends, in it.